03 / Memory changes · Ontario
I’m noticing changes in their memory.
Changes in memory deserve a conversation, not an assumption. Your first job is to notice, listen and help prepare for a professional assessment.
A few things to do next
Start with a calm conversation.
Choose a familiar setting and describe what you have noticed without labelling it. Listen to your parent’s perspective and ask what help, if any, they would welcome.
Write down useful observations.
Prepare a few dated examples of changes and their effect on everyday life, plus questions for the appointment. Keep private health details in a secure place; this site’s plan is for general next steps only.
Arrange a primary-care conversation.
Contact your parent’s family doctor or nurse practitioner about the concerns. With your parent’s agreement, ask how you can contribute observations and what to bring. The clinician determines the appropriate assessment.
Connect with the Alzheimer Society.
Ask the local Alzheimer Society what support fits your situation. First Link connects people living with dementia and their families with information and community support. Ask the care team about a referral.
Ask about the practical next questions.
Discuss any concerns about medicines, driving or being alone with the appropriate professional. Ask your parent about their wishes and who they want involved. Seek qualified legal advice if decision-making documents need attention.
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